Being Bothered by Someone?
If someone starts bothering you, either by calling or texting you, you do not have to take it!
Top 6 Tips for Taking Control:
Don't respond to this person. That way, you stay in charge.
You may feel like getting rid of the message because it's upsetting or embarrassing, but don’t. It is very important to keep the message to show an adult or law enforcement in case the person continues.
Keep a safe adult in the loop so they know what is happening. S/he can help you sort things out.
If you see this person offline, don't engage them in conversation. If s/he continues to bother you, tell an adult.
Don't show the person that s/he is getting to you. Sometimes showing a reaction can give the other person a sense of power because they know that they are able to upset you and this in turn, makes them feel stronger. Keep your reaction and your thoughts to yourself as a way of preserving your own personal power, refusing to give it away to this person. They simply aren't worth it!
If the situation doesn't resolve itself, speak with your parents or guardian about changing your cell number.
IMPORTANT: If at any point you feel scared or feel threatened in any way, call 911 or let your parents or guardians know so they can call the police. Remember that threatening someone is illegal.
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