Around this age, it is normal to start having sexual feelings and begin to establish a sexual identity. This is a healthy, natural and important part of adolescence. For most youth, this can be a very exciting time and involves experimenting. But this can also be a very difficult, confusing and stressful time.
It takes time for teens to understand who they are, who they're becoming, and who they want to be. Part of that understanding includes our sexual feelings and attractions.
Establishing a sexual identity includes:
While this can be a very exciting time in your life, it also isn’t always that easy! You may have lots of questions and feel confused about the different feelings you are having. Talking to a safe, caring adult can help take off some of the pressure and put things into perspective making them seem more manageable.